Hello! Thank goodness it’s spring break! Now, schools usually give students spring break as a chance to relax and unwind from the stresses of daily classes. And yet, I know that most of you are still at that same stress level, if not above it, because of standardized tests, spring break homework, and of course, that big looming scary thunderstorm cloud called ‘college applications’.
I know I was freaking out about college spring break last year (and to tell you the truth, I still am haha). I’m writing all this with the hopes that you won’t have to learn the college process the hard way, so that you can enjoy your last year of high school. I don’t know everything about the process, but I want to at least share with you what I do know of it.
The first thing I’d like to share with you is not necessarily an action or a step in the process—it’s a mindset. Well…it’s my personal opinion, but one that I feel very strongly about and one that I hope will make you feel better about the process.
You are not a Pokemon trading card.
Pokemon, digimon, ----mon cards—whatever floats your boat. Admittedly, I don’t know much about any of these, but I remember that the trading cards had 1) a picture of the creature and 2) straight up stats about the creature’s powers and weaknesses. Kids on my junior high bus used to fight over trading cards with higher stats.
And I’ve noticed that this is what many parents and students think is the college process. Get a perfect 2400. Become a National Merit Scholar. Ace your ACT. Weed out all the ways you can get your GPA as close as humanly possible to a 5.0. And that is your trading card, your golden ticket into “Insert-Selective-School-Here”.
In reality, there is no golden ticket to the most selective schools. Think about it: if Harvard accepted every National Merit Scholar, why don’t more people from our school get in?
I’ve heard so many juniors obsess about test scores. I’m not saying you shouldn’t try hard or study for them. Colleges use them for a reason: however imperfect they are, standardized tests are the only, well, standardized measure for colleges to compare applicants.
So, okay, disclaimer: a good score doesn’t hurt, but a bad score might. At the same time however, you don’t need a perfect score. Colleges use ALL parts of the application to get as close to a true picture of you as they can. Compared to a cold number on a transcript, your essays say a lot more about you as a learner, community participator, and most importantly, a person with a unique set of abilities.
Speaking of abilities, many parents and students believe that the number of activities one participates in equates acceptance letters. Sorry to burst your bubble, but being chair of NHS, member of the badminton team, Sci Oly member, math team participant, cello player etc. isn’t necessarily what colleges are looking for.
For one thing, in at least one of your essays you’re going to have to explain the significance of one of your activities. If you are in 50 different things, chances are that you haven’t spent much time on any of them, and there isn’t much meaning to them other than that you think they will get you into college.
Secondly, colleges don’t have a specific type of person they look for. They like well-rounded kids, they like band kids, they like kids who love science and hate writing for the life of them. Hopefully in high school, you have found an activity or club that you absolutely love. Maybe you’ve found that you love all sorts of subjects. That’s what colleges really want to know about you. Not just the names of every club or every award, but what you’ve done with them, what you really like about them, why you do what you do.
So you have what you have on your trading card. Focus on the things you are proud of—and having known you guys for a while, I know you have a lot to be proud of. Pikachu might not have had the best stats on its trading card. But at least on the TV show, Ash Ketchum loved and treasured Pikachu not for its stats, but for its friendship and loyalty. And I promise you, you’ll find a college that will accept you not because of your ACT, but because of you as a whole, complete, and absolutely wonderful person.
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